For the guys, this one is for you. Let's pretend your wife, girlfriend, etc was cheating on you. If someone else also knew, would you want them to tell you, or would you want to stay unaware and deal with it if/when you found out on your own?
I'm only interested in the guys perspective, not what a woman would want if she were in that situation. Why? Because I tried to Google this scenario, and no matter how I worded it, nearly every result was still about guys cheating on their wives, if you should tell the wife, and what should the wife then do. I guess Google is just sexist like that. Though if you ladies want to poll the men you know and reply with that, go for it.
I'm only interested in the guys perspective, not what a woman would want if she were in that situation. Why? Because I tried to Google this scenario, and no matter how I worded it, nearly every result was still about guys cheating on their wives, if you should tell the wife, and what should the wife then do. I guess Google is just sexist like that. Though if you ladies want to poll the men you know and reply with that, go for it.