HTC sync manager says my phone's not there after 20 seconds of being connected!

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Help please!!! I've spent all day trying to sync my phone with manager and about 20 seconds after I plug in the USB it tells me my phone has been disconnected! What's going on? What have I inadvertently changed? How do I fix it please - in real simpleton language. I need to download all my photo's before I go on holiday.
Thanks x