Re: note 3 sm n9005 wifi grey out and cannot scan
Make sure wifi is on. (If it's not picking up any signals, there's about a 0.01% chance of its being your router, unless your nearest neighbor is more than 1/4 mile away.) Thrn the phone off. Not restart, power off. Remove the battery. Let it sit for about 5 minutes. (That's to reset the hardware, in case there's any residual power left after you turn it off.) Replace the battery, turn it on and try turning the wifi on again.
If that doesn't do it, bring it to your carrier's store for help (and possible replacement - there's a year warranty on it).
It sounds to me as if the wifi radio went south. (That's one problem I've never seen with a Note 3, but it can happen - even as soon as a day or so after you get it.)