So, this has been a learning experience.
The wife's pissed at me because I screwed with her phone... I lost data... not too bad, but I did lose data.
Learned something interesting in the process... downgrading to zv9 doesn't necessarily restore the zv9 recovery... but it doesn't fry your data either...
zvd did seem to fry data... in the process, I figured out that if I went down to something I could root... say zv9, I could then use rage to gain root, with my newly gained root, could then leverage the same /data/local/tmp folder to flash the zv9 recovery so I could then upgrade back to zvh and root the sucker...
Too bad I figured this out AFTER I'd screwed up her secure_data folder on the sd card...
Also, seems that I had issues with the Launcher changes... between the stock rom and opti... I didn't realize the "stock" launcher was changed... which fouled up my plans... when I did this on my own phone, I didn't lose launcher configuration because... well, I use go launcher.
Again, lessons learned. and Titanium backup acts VERY strangely when you don't have any free space on your SD card.