I had this same issue with my new JVCs today (R800BT and also an X80BT in my other car). There are three steps in the JVC manual, and step #2 wasn't ever coming up as an option. Step #2 is "Select Yes to confirm the passkey." What the instructions should say is "When Vol - Yes appears on the JVC display, press the Control Dial." This is only onscreen twice, for about 3 seconds each time. This completed the pairing.