** SOLVED ** So finally after a bunch of times playing with it I found the correct combination that corrected the problem.
1) Uninstall Gmail aka just uninstall the updates that have been applied.
2) Clear Gmail cache
3) Open Gmail and attempt to use it in the boring lacking features old version of it.
4) Reboot your phone
5) Open the Play Store, go to "My Apps" and update Gmail
6) IF there is cache, clear it again
7) Reset all the settings I lost downgrading and updating Gmail, which was much better than factory resetting my phone.
I just want to say I went with the "Trying the same thing twice and expecting different results" method on this one after my Gmail crashed just by clicking on the icon yesterday. Also by not opening the returned to what came on the phone version of Android, it didn't work when I updated. There was something that needed to kick in on that old version that fixed it. Also tried doing it without clearing the cache and that didn't help either. Hope no one is having this issue but if they are, that is how it was fixed for me.