i know this is late:
i see a lot of reviews of these batteries but not any information on the physical size of them. from what i did find, your best bet is the samsung extendead battery, its 900mah larger, so only 1-2mm thicker.
i currently have a galaxy nexus, in the market for a s3, with the extended battery, and i want to find the slimmest case i can that will still fit the battery (with or without using the back plate) so far i read on a forum somewhere that the seidio active will work, and i believe the pop! case mate might work too. i currently have a pop on my GN with the samsung extended battery without a back plate (it covers all the open parts perfectly)
that being said, there were people with GN that had the commuters that wanted an extended battery as well. some people had taken a razor and cut out the section of the interior rubber commuter that covers the battery. this let them use some larger extended batteries with the commuter (i think the hyperion). if you remove the back plate you can most likely fit your commuter over your phone and samsung extended battery with no problem. if you want more then 3000mah, you might want to try the cut out method.
- good luck