@jontalk - I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from about having difficulty in pulling the trigger. The problem with going Android is there are so many phones and they keep coming out with more and more. You can buy the best one for you this week and guaranteed within a couple of months a "better" one will be coming out, that's just a given. That's the dilemma with going Android. I choose the Note for 2 reasons, screen size and S-pen. I really don't think that there will be another phone this size out until the GNote2 and I don't think any other phone will have an S-Pen. I think those things will be unique to the Note. That being said, I am interested in seeing the HTC One X when it comes out hopefully next month. I think it might give the Note a run for its money in my book.
Keep checking out different phones and when you find one that really "wows" you I think you will know it and be able to pull the trigger.
Good luck!