Yes. Google said it will be a while till EVERYONE has the 2.3.3 update. It might take a while for both of the updates. Sorry. You can always do it manually. Also about the market HERE is a thread that tells you how to get the new one.
Yep, neither mine nor my wife's has updated to 2.3.3. All updates to 2.3.2 we got OTA without issue.
I was joking in the previous post, but I'm actually beginning to wonder if Google has put the brakes on the OTA? Probably not, but odd it would take this long. Since our phones don't appear affected by random reboots, I'm not too worried about it yet, though.
You know, Google never hits their time estimates. Wouldn't be surprised if this drags out to six weeks! (Wish I could get away with that at my job.)