Ok I have tried a large amount of roms and I believe I just found a new favorite, Synergy ROM (Android 2.3.4 with Sense 3.0), so far it has a lot to offer, smooth performance, Sense 3.0 elements, Android 2.3.4. working Mobile Hotspot.
Check it out at ★ ☆ ★| ROM | SynergyROM | NIGHTLYS | 2.3.4 | SENSE 3.0 | ★ ☆ ★ - xda-developers
Check it out at ★ ☆ ★| ROM | SynergyROM | NIGHTLYS | 2.3.4 | SENSE 3.0 | ★ ☆ ★ - xda-developers