From an android lover, I have yet to find anything to beat the ipad yet.....I hate ios compared to android.....but that doesn't mean I hate ios.
I had a Dinc, now a Rezound, and I love em both. They are rooted, wireless tethered, the Dinc was rommed up, etc. I have a nook color that has CM7 on it and I LOVE it because I watch my hometown team with the MLB at bat with mlb.tv with it because android can spoof my location to get around blackout restrictions.
However, the amount of tablet apps suck on Android. IF i could get the same apps on an android tablet I could get on an ipad, I would choose android hands down. I will say I am a Mac user. Dumped windows 7 years ago and will never look back. Not so much a love of mac, but an absolute hatred of windows. There are many complaints I have about ios, and I have to adjust when using the ipad, but the same can be said on Android. BOTH do things well, and BOTH can be improved drastically. I hate the iFanboys out there, but having an android phone and an ipad gives me the best of both worlds. It does suck to have to double pay for certain apps, so I don't. But many apps now sync together like words w/friends and such.
I hate the closed ecosystem of apple, but that doesn't mean the ipad won't suit you....I enjoy it, but you will NEVER see an iphone in my hand. Android for life.