One of the main reasons I didn't want an iPhone is that they all look the same to me. Every screen is nothing but a bunch of boxes. And this is supposed to be "stylish"?!? (not referring to the OP, but to Apple OS's theme in general).
Please don't take this as a bash on your desire for big beautiful buttons, I just find it odd that Apple, who once had a commercial depicting Windows as dull-greyish-bigbrother and Apple as the colorful emanicpator, would make everything look so generic.