I don't know what you mean. Like vibrate and ring at the same time or at different times?
Well I can think of 2.
Timerriffic can control you vib/ring time the way you want it without even touching the sound anymore.
Sound manager can control everything about your sound and vibration.
Quick settings is also good if you prefer a simpler setup but can control many other things that have to be accessed though the settings.
Hope that helped!
Ultra Keyboard Pro has a T-9 keyboard built in....sweet app.