Facebook Messenger? The features may be similar between Android and iOS, but we're more geared toward Android while our friends at the iMore forums (
https://forums.imore.com) are more geared to iOS. You have an actual iPad or is it a tablet that you're calling an iPad because it's easier to call it that?
Facebook help may also be of assistance as it's their app.
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