This is a legal grey area. If the line is in your name, you may be good. If the line is not in your name, this may border on the illegal. The BEST way to do what you want is for the phones to be on a managed family plan, with you as the manager. With some carriers, that's gives you some of the tools you're looking for (or it used to).
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