when i call a friend he sees my wife's name. the account is in my wife's name for discount purposes. how do i get Barry to show up when i call people or at least my number?
The only way to be sure your name shows up is to make sure your friends have you in their contacts with that number. Otherwise their devices will try to find the caller ID info elsewhere and that's going to be tied to whoever owns that number (your wife).
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