I've been hearing recently about an update....praying that its ICS.....anybody know why my 3v0 either hasnt recieved it or seen it/ other methods of updating besides the phones software update?
No ICS yet. There are some people who didn't get the last update for whatever reason and are asking about it, causing confusion about a newer update. If your software version is @ 2.17.651.5 then you are up to date. If it isn't then, from the home screen, MENU>>SETTINGS>>SYSTEM UPDATES>>HTC SOFTWARE UPDATE.