I don't know if the community is becoming divided in a negative sense. I think a natural division happens when people decide what features are important to them, then they gravitate towards the device that fits the bill. Battery indifference or spare required. SD card a must or internal storage fine. AMOLED or S-LCD, vanilla Android or skinned. All of these options are what make this platform great. I am sure if the iPhone were offered in various form-factors with other options (i.e batteries and SD cards) there would be a division, as it were, among their users as well. As it is they have learned that one size doesn't fit all when it comes to storage space.
What I find interesting is that people are becoming divided, and divisive, with themselves! Take this forum as a prime example: the most viewed and commented thread is about people receiving shipping confirmation back in May, before the Apple injunction debacle. 2000+ replies and 155,000+ views. All about people loving their decision to get the phone, a little whining about the look of the device, some slobbering over specs and the screen and how smooth every reviewer says Sense runs now. The 2nd most viewed/commented thread? The "I can't believe HTC and Sprint are still screwing me over with this device and not giving me JB so I will NEVER buy another HTC device because I had no clue it would take this long, even though it always has" thread. Nearly 1100 replies and almost 114,000 views. If you've never had a non-Nexus device then it may be understandable, but the rest of us were acutely aware that we wouldn't get updates that fast. When we do it will be a revision behind what's out now. We also won't get it the same time as our folks with the similar devices on other networks. It might be before or it might be after. We may get it before or after Sammy, LG, Moto... but we knew that going in. We also knew about the battery and lack of 2 GB of memory. We got the device anyway and loved it... for awhile. Then we saw the GS3 get JB then the new Nexus and we felt cheated with our "old" software. We decide that the ƎVO is a huge pile of burning feces and we'll never buy a non-Nexus device again. Except for the GS3, because it's perfect. My wife has the GS3. It has problems and issues. It's not a perfect device. For me. But for her it is. My ƎVO is perfect for me. I knew the shortcomings going in. I wish it had more internal storage and more memory would be great. I would love JB, but I know that it won't be 4.2. I made an informed decision and refuse to beat myself up over it. Nor will I beat on HTC or Sprint. Or start commenting in various threads about how surprised and upset I am that my device is... exactly what I always knew it was! I won't bag on it and proclaim the {insert greatest Android device name here} as the sum of all my desires and anyone who doesn't agree is a tool.
I realize that some people have legitimate issues with devices not related to specs and updates and those people are not who I'm talking about here. Specifically in this forum, those people having lag issues with contacts and messaging. But the people who complain about not getting the JB update, on the sole basis that it is taking too long, are part of the problem with the negative aspects of dividing this community.
Holy schnikes, that was long.