I honestly admit I have no skills cooking up ROM's or hacking my phone. I for one am great full for the Android community that gets this done. If you want it a "legit" FROYO now, go ahead and email Verizon and HTC and let us know the response.
I have used a wide range of cooked ROM's on my BlackBerry's and they were always getting better with time. Developers do this for fun, hacker cred and overall because they can. Be grateful for what we get not what you think you are owed.
I say there should be a donation fund setup for a team to build the best FROYO ROM for the Incredible, I pay for apps because I don't like ads, I pay for apps because the developer worked to develop the app.
So if we can get a group of ROM developers to sign on I will put $50 into the pool to get things rolling. Nuff said.