Man, this ICS brick thing people are so scared of is ridiculous. I work with a team and flash every day all day testing and fixing stuff. I flash from FD02 repack ALL the time!! The only type of roms you need to be aware of potential bricks is CM9, AOSP or AOKP roms. If you follow directions you...
Pretty much all of the roms over on XDA are deodexed, EXCEPT for stock ones. I would flash Blend 2.6.2 and the ICS darkside theme. It is a VERY stable rom, ask JayWill72, both him and I run it. :D