Where did it tell you the estimated shipping time? I also ordered a white XL immediately after pre-orders went live. I only saw the "delivers by 10/24" language on the product page.
Has your CC been charged? Do you still have the option to change the shipping address? If not, that seems ridiculous for them to say they can't add expedited shipping.
I am seeing a few here and on Reddit that had originally 18th shipping that are shipping today. That's at least some going a day early. I'm holding out hope that since this is the first official day of shipping and they already have ones going a day early that the 23rd batch goes early.
For anyone with Nov 23 delivery ETA, wanted to let you know my 10/10 order of 32GB silver XL literally just shipped! I was talking with the Google service rep at the same time that the email came thru!
I have one for my 6p and won't be getting one for my Pixel. Live button doesn't work very well and I do not like that the top and bottom of the phone are exposed.