The wife and I have just received our 1st smartphones, the Droid 3. Is there someplace or somebody that cam help us set the phones up? We will not need work things but would like them for social networking, email, etc. I want to make sure the proper apps? widgets? etc. are set up and turn or eliminate ones we would not use. Looking for the longest battery life and easiest use for us "smart phone illiterate" people. I keep reading about rooting, motoblur, etc. and have no idea about any of this stuff.Any help or info will be appreciated. Thanks.
Welcome to Android (and smartphones)! Your question is understandable, but rather broad. I'll say this much, if you (and your wife) have your own Google accounts, all you really need to do is turn the phone on, click on the Android logo and follow the on-screen prompts (more or less). Basically, all it involves is logging into your existing Google account and picking a few options (which are explained for you) and that's it. By doing so, your Google email, chat, calendar, market, maps, navigation and other Google built-in stuff will all be ready to go and connected to your Google account automatically. If you don't have a Google account already, I think the phone will ask you to create one.
If you are using another email service besides Google, then it gets a bit more complicated. You can search the web on how to set up email connectivity for whatever service you're using. Still, all your Google account stuff will be connected.
Once that's done, just start looking through the setting and see whats there. One thing you'll probably want to set up is ringtones (the default ones for the phone, I think, are pretty dumb). In Settings->Sound, you can set the Phone ringtone and the "default" Notification ringtone. If you want specific Notification ringtones for the various apps that have them (such as GTalk, Gmail, Calendar, etc), you can set the notification sounds by going into those respective apps and finding that option in their own settings menus. For example, if you want a unique ringtone for GTalk, you would start the GTalk app, bring up the GTalk options (with the menu button), go to Setting->Notifications and set it up. You would need to do that for each app that you want to have a notification ringtone other than the default you set in the main Settings of the phone. On a side note, if you set an alarm clock alarm, you can set the ringtone for each alarm you set by editing that specific alarm's options.
That should be enough to make you dangerous...
Now, as for rooting... as was already said, don't mess with it until you feel comfortable with the phone. Even then, I wouldn't recommend it unless you are a fairly tech-savvy person. A normal, out-of-the-box Android phone treats you like a "standard accoupt" user on a computer (as opposed to, say, a "superuser" or "administrator"). You are allowed to do most things, but there are certain parts of the phone's software that you don't have permission to mess with. When you root your phone, you are making yourself the "root" user of the phone (if you're not familiar with UNIX/LINUX lingo, "root" is basically the equivalent of "Administrator" on a Windows computer; basically you can do or modify anything you want; nothing is restricted). So, that means you can add/remove/change ANYTHING in the phone's software. This is good because it allows you to do things that, perhaps, the manufacturer or carrier (Verizon, in this case) didn't want you to be able to do (like, say, user your phone as a Wi-Fi hotspot for free, or uninstall some apps that came preloaded). Then again, rooting can be bad because there is no longer protection in place for the system critical software on the phone. If you screw it up, you could effectively "brick" your phone (make it completely unusable, sometimes even permenantly). So, like I said, don't worry about rooting right now. It isn't necessary for normal use.
MotoBlur: This is the nickname given to all of the non-Android-stock stuff that Motorola does to the look/feel/interface of the phone. The name comes from the first Moto phone that had it, in which these cusomizations were called "Blur". Moto doesn't call it that anymore, but the name as pretty much stuck. Anyway, most Android phone manufacturers put some level of customization into the Android experience. They often do things like make the homescreen look and behave differently from stock android, change the look/feel of various options menus, add or remove some settings, add extra apps or widgets, change the notification bar or the app drawing, etc. HTC calls their custom interface "Sense", Samsung has a name for theirs which eludes me at the moment. If a phone has none of these interface customizations from the manufacturer, it is referred to as having "Vanilla Android". Most of the folks you would find on here would prefer their phones to be running Vanilla Android, but alas, manufacturers would rather put their own spin on the Android OS, presumably to add functionality, improve usability for "regular" folks (not Uber-geeks like many of us on this forum) and to differentiate themselves from their competitors.
Again, welcome to Android and, hopefully, you can find the answers to all of your questions here.
-SR-
By the way, check out the "Android 101" series of articles for some helpful tips on the basics of Android.