Best advice is to go to the store and look at the various phones available. Don't forget the Droid Pro and Continuum were just released as well.
As far as bugs, just remember, in the big picture, these are computers. When you take a computer with a fresh OS with nothing loaded into it, you are going to have the ideal perfomance and speed. As you load in data and programs, these factors will affect the OS. Sometimes this reveals itself in the form of bugs. Particularly when you run an open platform that offers software across multiple types of hardware, there will be bugs. This will happen no matter which device you choose, so I definitely wouldn't base my decision on a couple members complaining about their bugs as you don't know what they loaded in.
Having said that, you have a good variety to choose from. The largest screen in Verizons stable is the Droid X. This has been my favorite of them all primarily due to the size of the screen. When looking things up, I don't feel like I have to consistently scroll left, right, up and down to see the page I am looking at. I enjoy the speed, the number of home screens, and the memory. This works best for me.
You now have choices between slim and thick, sliders, Blackberry form factors, once you have decided on form, try it out and make sure your comfortable with it.
If you don't want to worry about contract, buy one off Craigslist for around the same price you would new on contract. This opens your upgrade options down the line.
Good luck, let us know what you decide.