Well, I downloaded and paid for Beautiful widgets. By the time I got through all the skins, it was too late for a refund. It's ok, I don't think I would have paid for it if I didn't want to try and get the time to look like it does in the example at the beginning of the post.
I was really not impressed with the weather part, because I couldn't get a day to day forecast like I do with the Motorola weather widget. Then I saw you can change from google to Accuweather, which is what I liked about the moto widget. Now i can get the extended and detailed day to day forecast on BW. So not bad. I found a clock font and the weather animation is ok, a ton of different skins (most I don't care for though), but I'll get use to it I'm sure.
I guess I'll just have to wait for a reply from DroidnOK to see where he got the time setup on his home screen. Thanks everybody for your help though.