Use uot kitchen if its a froyo rom I think you just upload the zips frameworks I made a theme for a for ginger rom on my s but if your new that's a good tool to use when your uploading things like frameworks it will tell you what to upload for gingerbread roms or froyo roms just Google uot kitchen
You want to make a rom for Metro, you were messing with QPST... Don't take this the wrong way, but you are so far in over your head, it's amazing your phone still works.
I would first take Anthony's advice and Google all the questions you have and read up on the answer, plus read the Stickies of this forum and XDA Developers Forums. I would say take it a little slower, just so you still have a working phone.
Take it from me I am still a nood to the whole dev thing.