It's my thread and I'll b*tch if I want to...
Well.
Sure everyone's noticed there's been zero significant dev activity from me since April.
You can all thank the concept of married with children for that. Thought I should have dev time, it is the ONLY activity I enjoy alone anymore, but it "interferes with me getting things done," things I don't agree are necessary, but which cause ballistic blowouts if everyone doesn't chip in to make things the way one single family member wants them to be. Booooooo.
Since I don't watch tv, or drink, or chat all the time on Facebook, it looks to a person who's enjoyment is filled with those things that I'm "wasting time making my phone better." Nevermind the hours frittered away on the three aforementioned activities counting towards equal free time.
I hate the double standard. I have tolerated its ill effects for at least 5 years now, lost all kinds of property, friends, and pieces of self, and gained nothing but drama, hassle, whining and being bossed around just to keep an intact home environment for my kids. I
I'd have lost tolerance for the way I've been treated almost three years ago if not for trying to keep it together for my kids.
I've lost every bit of say in what is done and how things are handled.
My kids have been put in public school against my clearly stated reservations and disagreement.
This is now a two-job household , leaving no time for chores that used to be done by whichever of us was the stay home parent , making it really a three job household.
While my goals and views of the relationship, money, school, and work are the same as when this started ten years ago, hers have "grown up" into sh*tty spend-spend-wah-money-wah-not-good-enough-want-higher-living-standards nonsense. My kids are living better than I did at their ages.
This post may self destruct at any time.
Can' facebook anything cause of the double sandard where I get whined at for posting and asked if my relationship status is public and posted. Like I'm the one messaging opposite gender folks who are known to try to incite women to cheat.
I hate double standards .
That is all.
Oh, now gotta drive 40min to rethrow a 10 cent paper they say I missed, but I didn't.they'll charge me 1.50 if I don't.