I get the impression that there are two types in this Note 7 forum.
1) People who generally like the phone and are planning too do the swap when the stock is available.
2) People that do not like the device and are having their jollies over this recall situation.
Samsung is in my opinion doing the best it can with this unfortunate and expensive situation. I also have to mention my carrier T-MOBILE they are onboard with the recall and have given me the option to wait till the stock is replenished. Seriously, what more do you want from them?
There is a bigger group of people that you didn't mention. This group is the group of people who haven't yet bought the N7. Remember that the N7 just came out a couple of weeks ago. A lot of people don't immediately buy a new model flagship phone the minute it becomes available. They wait for the reviews and early user reports, before making their purchases. I am one of those people.
I love my N3, particularly because of its Amoled display and great battery life. Yet it is time to get a new phone because it no longer is being supported with security and operating system updates. The N7 was the first phone on my new phone shopping list, but for the reasons I love my N3, I have concerns about the N7. Sure, the N7 has a great higher res display, but what good is it, if I constantly need to worry about breaking or scratching it. ( I have yet to do either to my N3.) The N7 3500 mah battery is bigger than the 3200 mah battery that came with my N3, but I never did I worry about my N3 catching fire. Furthermore, I could easily replace the battery with a larger capacity battery if I needed to do it for any reason.
So I am in a group of Samsung Note users that want a new phone without new problems. I don't own a N7, and I do not hate Samsung products. I only wish the N7 for all its improvements over my N3, particularly it's wonderful camera, didn't have deal breaking quality and durability issues.
I am not getting my jollies over these issues. In fact, unless Samsung can convince me that I shouldn't worry about these early production problems, I will probably need to wait another year for the N8. That wait doesn't make me in the least bit happy or jolly.