It's okay, it confuses me too and I have one...
if you haven't had a Note 7 , there is no way you can understand what an awesome phone it truly is.
We're annoyed because we have to return them.
We're annoyed that our phones are going to be gimped with this 60% battery update.
We are annoyed because many of us could not find a suitable replacement.
We are annoyed because the extremely low probability that something will happen is within what we perceive as more than acceptable limits. (For example, my toaster and the 60 year old wiring in my house is much more dangerous to me and Society at Large than my Galaxy Note7, so... )
We're annoyed at the normalcy bias that people have... For example, you put the public at more risk by driving to the grocery store than having a Galaxy Note 7, but no one is going to ask you to quit driving to the grocery store in the interest of Public Safety.
We are annoyed that people will tell us to give up our personal property because *they have deemed it too dangerous.
And the list goes on... basically, we are just very annoyed with the whole situation...
anyway, at least from my perspective that's how I see it.