Kevin
I can't say I have noticed HTC fans hating more than Samsung fans to be honest. Some people love Samsung and see them doing no wrong, and some feel the same way about HTC.
I currently have a Galaxy S3, and before that I had a Galaxy Note, and before that I had iPhones. Now, I am waiting for my HTC One to be delivered - my first HTC. Both phones ( actually all three brands) are brilliant and no-one in their right mind could honestly say otherwise. Anybody who blindly follows a single company is a fool to them self - better to look at all phones available to you and choose the one that is right for you. Of course, Samsung have been carrying out some pretty unpleasant tactics recently according to the news (ie paying students to rubbish HTC) which I think is kinda pathetic. I also think that, looking at the HTC One and S4, HTC have spent more time really thinking about what people use a smartphone for and taking some pretty bold risks, for which they should be commended. Samsung seem to have become obsessed with cramming stuff on which is designed to impress, but is of little real-world value.
Samsung outspent every other manufacturer last year on marketing, so it's little surprise they have sold so many phones, especially when the S3 was(is) such a great phone too. Not perfect, but very, very good. The S4 will be even better - lighter, better screen, higher res camera, faster etc. But, to me at least, they haven't spent as much time really thinking about what to put on the phone, unlike HTC who I think have. Almost every review I have read about the S4 says that the software they have put on it is pretty useless. That is why I am going to try the new HTC next. I don't think it will be perfect either, but for me it is the best fit right now.
But I agree, the rampant fanboyism on both sides achieves nothing; let's have a mature discussion about these phones instead! There are so many interesting things to discuss about them.
-Robsa
PS Wouldn't your post have been better in the HTC One forum?