I think the original question has been answered. I just thought I'd throw this out there based on my experience with the various upgrades I've been through.
I'd agree with monster and do a factory reset after a major upgrade such as this one. When the carriers and manufactures test their software they cannot account for all the variations of 3rd party apps that users have. They install the final release on fresh phone and test from there.
When Froyo was pushed out to the EVO there were MAJOR problems that where most were resolved by 2 things:
1) A hard reset.
2) Discontinuing the use of task killers.
If you've enabled "backup my settings and Automatic Restore" in system settings, you will be up and running in know time. Apps are re-downloaded and system settings are re-applied. There will be some configuration you might have to do with various apps, but it will be well worth the weight. If you don't want to lose call logs and/or SMS messages, there are some free and simple to use apps in the market that will back these up.
In the end, following this process might not resolve any issue but it will rule out the possibility that something didn't go right during the upgrade process. If you've upgraded already just do the hard reset part.
You guys are not alone on the poor battery life front. Every phone I've owned could have been hooked up to a car battery and still gotten poor battery life. There's just too much going on inside these phones competing for a limited resource.