Just thought I'd update. I tried a few apps and a few methods. I finally am going with Super Backup (pro) and good old drag-and-drop.
I hook the phones up via USB, drag and drop over the photos and whatever. After doing a backup of contacts with Super Backup, I drag and drop that over, too.
I also went through our contacts and made a spreadsheet of all of them, that way we have a PC copy. I divided them up according to group then printed out several groups so we had hard copies.
Smart phones aren't making us any smarter. We've gone back to memorizing phone numbers and don't use any speed dials except for contact lists on our S3s.