I posted in your other thread as well, but mine does the same when booting up, so I am going to assume that is intentional, kind of like the Battlefield 3 thing. I also had the same thing with the connector, but I just put a little more pressure with my thumb when pulling it out and haven't had an issue since. While I agree taking it back would be the #1 option, I don't think I am going to do it. I was lucky enough to get this before everyone else, I don't want to take it back and have to wait another 2-3 weeks to get a replacement. Unless I would get a bump in line for a new replacement since I already have mine in hand, or am I really reaching with that?
Otherwise, I freaking love this thing. Some lag as others have reported, but honestly, its not a deal breaker to me, even after dropping $550. And I am sure once ICS is on it, a lot of those minor issues will go away with it. Honestly the only thing bothering me right now is I don't have a case for it. I bought the $40 ASUS case, but cancelled it as it seemed a little overpriced for something that doesn't also cover the back.