Sorry mods...finally found it. Took me forever to find it through a web search. Instead of being under the account it's under Data Usage>Menu>Auto-Sync Data
I have no idea how that got turned off.
Selecting services to auto-sync via Accounts is only an option if you have Data Usage > Menu > Auto-sync Data checked.Remember that you can also select which Google services you want to sync by going into the Google account linked to your device and checking/unchecking the boxes you don't want sync'd.
Where do I find the data useage to start the process to enable sync. My problem is with my calendar.