So, not to totally disagree with you but...to partially disagree with you:
Most phones just aren't this buggy.
I've never had a phone that spontaneously rebooted (frequently).
I've never had a phone that when the battery is low and you take a picture, crashes.
I've never had a phone that randomly doesn't work with bluetooth devices it successfully paired with.
I've never had a phone that took 10 seconds (randomly) to redraw the screen.
I've never had a phone that ran out of battery power within about 4 hours with any level of heavy use.
I've never had a phone that required a third party launcher to make the basic functions work fast enough to not drive me insane.
And, well, I've had about 10 different blackberries, 4 iPhones (iPhone 3, 3GS, 4, 4S), 10 Palm devices and others, Good devices, and many other devices.
The only thing I've never had before is an Android device. But from what I can tell the other Android devices don't behave like the Charge. (DO THEY?!) You seem to be implying this is par for the course with mobile phones. I can assure you it isn't for non-Android phones. And my bet is that it isn't for Android phones either. Right?
I'm personally looking forward to the Galaxy Nexus, if only because I'm certain it will get regular updates.
Sorry that you've had such a bad experience. My experience with the Charge has not been what you've experienced. Honestly. I did experience lag and screen redraws when I first got the phone. This was with the stock Froyo firmware. Also, I've experienced slow GPS locks and the battery performance should have been better than what we got, however, the Charge has better battery performance than other Verizon LTE devices. I quickly left stock Froyo when I got the phone. In fact, I rooted my phone the day I got it and immediately placed a custom Rom and Voodoo Kernel on it. Screen redraws and lag disappeared especially when using V6 supercharger. As far as rebooting and freezes and whatnot, I haven't really experienced this. Granted, I've had to take matters into my own hand to achieve some of these improvements but I've had to do this with the three Blackberry phones I owned too. The Storm 1 and Storm 2 both released with horrendous firmware. I had forward and hardware problems with my Tour. I have NEVER experienced a bugless experience with any of the smartphones I've owned. Ever. Each had quirks and issues. They all pretty much got better as time went on except where there were hardware issues of course.
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