Ok so here is the deal since I had time to delve further into this. If she is connected to her car stereo but not streaming music she is getting no alerts. IF she is connected to her car stereo and IS streaming music she DOES get alerts. Also if she isn't connected to her car she gets alerts. So it's only if her phone connects and isn't streaming she gets no sounds.
Is this how it is supposed to be? Like I said my alerts go to my watch and I have done this for years now so I cant remember normal behavior of alerts while connected.
Can someone confirm this?