The thing most non-Pixel users don't get is that Pixel users don't care about what non-Pixel users care. I'd never go back to Samsung or any other Android after having tried the Google version of Android on my first Pixel 2 XL. Forget the fact that I love the Pixel design. Using a Pixel is just easy and consistent in a way that Samsung never was. And I've been a Samsung Galaxy S user for 7 years. And as a software engineer for over 25 years, I do appreciate quality software when I see it. In fact I'd switch to Apple in a heartbeat if I liked walled gardens. Pixel is the only non Apple experience that is comparable to Apple's.
You need benchmarks and power hungry video games on your phone? Good for you, you're spoilt for choice. You like a Pixel experience? Too bad, you only have Google or Apple. Hopefully Google's hardware will one day be on par with Apple. But if not, so far I'm satisfied enough with my Pixel stuff.
Except I am a Pixel user. I've owned multiple Pixel phones in the past and I just recently had the Pixel 8 Pro which I sold for the Galaxy S24 Ultra because the Pixel was so buggy and frustrating with awful battery and reception.
I'm not even a huge fan of Samsung, but they just make better phones. The Galaxy is less buggy, has excellent battery life and actually great reception. It also doesn't heat up randomly. The UI can be as clean as you want it to be and you don't need a 3rd party launcher to get rid of the search bar and at a glance widget.
Add to that, I get all the AI features the Pixel gets, which is supposed to be all about AI. I even get better AI features, like call screening is just objectively better on the Galaxy as you can have custom messages if you want, which the Pixel doesn't have.
The 'Pixel experience' is overheating, buggy phones with bad battery life and reception.
When users have experiences like this:
https://www.androidcentral.com/phones/my-experience-with-google-pixel-6-two-years-later
It's not hard to see why Pixel loyalty is abysmal and only 25% of users plan to stick with the phones and 57% 'very likely' to change phones:
https://www.statista.com/chart/26001/smartphone-user-loyalty-by-brand-gcs/
Apple and Samsung users are much less likely to change phone brand (34%). Why is that? Are all iPhone and Galaxy users 'power users' and only care about benchmarks and power hungry videogames like you talk about? Of course not. They're likely to stick to Apple and Samsung because they're providing better experiences: smooth, bug-free experiences, excellent battery life, great reception. You know, the basics of a smartphone. Google are simply not doing that right now and the consumers are finding that out.
It's not, and has never been about benchmarks and games. It's the awful battery life, reception and bugs the Pixel phones are notorious for.