I did post a reply and am not seeing it, but in the end. I ended up answering my own question. I noticed FB dating was a solid circle with an F on my phone, which yes, I did notice a guy I am seeing get the same notifications as well. Which I had went into my own settings, to see what would pop up and it wasn't working for me, but now a friend shared my post and I got the same notification, solid white circle with an F. Whereas before it was a solid white square with an F.
Here is a cropped screenshot from my phone.