I think there is an option to skip auto-restoring on apps when activating a new device. I don't remember exactly what the option was, but I was able to prevent it when I activated my M8 in the store.
To find your apps and install at will, go into Play > My Apps > All tab. The down side is that will show every app you ever installed, including ones you subsequently uninstalled. That's a huge list to sort through for me, so what I do instead is write down the apps I currently have on my old device that I want to install on the new one. Then on the new device, I do a search for those apps and install individually. That's actually less hassle than searching the All Apps tab when it gets long. There doesn't seem to be any logic to its sorting method, so you won't find your wanted apps grouped together.