Settle down. The update will come when the update is ready. Why are you even getting upset over a simple update? Only 1% of Android devices have ICS right now. Be patient and don't bust a nerve over this. We all want it, but complaining about it won't make Samsung nor AT&T release it any quicker. There are more important things to get angry over than a company releasing an update.
+ 1 to this. To the OP: TURN OFF THE CAPS and mellow out...