So my awake and up time are both the same, and have been through multiple resets and battery pulls. Im not sure if this is an app or what but lately i havent made it more than 4 or 5 hours period without my phone on a charger
If by "refresh icon looked frozen" you mean your Sync icon was permanently syncing, it may have been because you configured for ActiveSync and for "frequency" you selected "PUSH". Not sure why that happens, except that true Microsoft Activesync does not have a "PUSH" mode (by that name). That happened to me when I selected PUSH within ActivSync. Instead, I changed it to 30 minutes and all was well. And... I still got my mail virtually instantaneously (5-90 seconds).The new Rom fixed it, they differ by about 25min now....p.s. before my refresh icon looked frozen in the notifications bar, but nothing was refreshing?
Download spare parts and see what is eating up partial wake usage. Also look at your battery usage under about phone.