https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.domobile.applockHere are the apps i was considering at this point.. i'm not finding much in the way of an app for android phones that is free and also includes blocking of apps and tracking usage/messaging etc..
Safe Lagoon
-Has all the standard stuff you would expect, including remote screen viewing
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premium plan is around $5.00 per month for 15 devices/profiles which is the cheapest i've seen with the this amount of features.
MMGuardian
-Similar features but the
pricing seems a bit steeper, roughly $8 per month but there are one time family plans that can be had for $139, but those expire after 5 years i think
Kids Zone is another option but its mainly just an allowed list of apps and games that game be ran, more than anything
Family Time appears to be free and do many of things I'm looking for, but the reviews are sketchy, often mentioning, doesnt work etc.
Kids Place was another free one but it has ads and doesnt always block things correctly.
Applock was the other option, but there were some limitations on this one or issues (forget exactly, i think content restrictions for adult content being one it was lacking).
Family Time Parental control was of course another consideration, but the price is steep and some of the reviews said there were issues..
Price wise (if there is no free alternative), it sounds like Safe Lagoon might be the way to go.
I would think when using the first or second one, i can use my own gmail/google store account and also for extra safety set a pin on purchase attempts, this way i'm using one store account on both phones, further restricted/monitored by using the protection app