dont have access a computer that can run all this stuff right now so i have do it off memory.
Well since i couldnt get z4root to work, i rooted my phone through adb and rooted the phone based on this thread:
http://forum.androidcentral.com/lg-optimus-s-rooting-roms-hacks/43108-how-root-lg-optimus-s.html
that was a headace, couldnt get the "#" sign for awhile, but eventually it worked and i used superuser & titanium backup to backup my data etc.
Then used the directions in thread, but i couldnt get adb again to get the "#" but eventually got it to work and used the commands.
from there when i run the command "reboot recovery" it reboots my phone, but it boots to the stock recovery everytime. i tried this 3 times already. yes, all the files are on my sd card and in my computer's tools directory. kept the zip file zipped (flash_image), unzipped the rar file (xionia_cwma_12518.6.img)
is it possible that its something with the superuser app? was the superuser app supposed to ask for permission for adb to be a superuser?
thanks for all your help