Just a few observations after reading your blog entry:
* For one, I think it is worth mentioning the Evo LTE at the top, with the One X series.
* The issues also have to do with the "suspension" of or "freezing" of many applications- they do not continue to run while in the background. One such example is having Google Play updates simply stop or even abort when switching to some other app, like the camera.
* Their "objective" to "keep sense running perfectly" has failed, because people still report "Sense reloads" (on my phone, it is rather rare, but I have seen it happen twice).
* You might want to formulate a more clear call to action for some compromise. For example, if they feel they want to keep things the way they are by default, then program in a way for the so-called "enthusiast" community users to easily change the multitasking/memory management settings.
* You might want to embarrass them where it hurts the most by pointing out that their #1 competitor, the Galaxy S III has no such problems with task/memory management and multitasking.