Hey everyone!
I got my incredible on the release date ( I was lucky enough to get my upgrade date pushed up a month in advance) so I've had it for about 3 days now. I've done some web browsing and I also downloaded skyfire.
It's been mentioned on other forums that this is more due to Skyfire than the phone itself. SKyfire's still in beta, so the memory management and optimzations aren't quite there yet. Give the browser sometime and it will get better.