ohmygawd this is the LAST thing I wanted to read about that sync symbol!! I think I have 200 apps on here and I'm not rooted so I would have to do it very manually.
:CRY: I am glad that I'm not alone and that I'm not crazy, either...but I can't believe this!!
So, I got such fast help with the constant sync icon...anyone care to explain what the "wave" icon thing is? It looks kind of like a 3...it's zig-zag and there are 3 lines together. It now also shows up to the right of the task bar but this one is in between the bluetooth and 3G icons. I suspect it has something to do with Bluetooth but don't know for sure.
ETA: I'm an idiot...it's the vibrate notification. But I'm going to leave the post here in case anyone else stumbles on this and wonders like I did.
EDITED TO ADD: As far as the sync icon not going away, per another post I saw where someone said they went into settins>manage applications>all and "force closed" blurcontacysnc...I went in to try this and couldn't find that but I did find something called "work contacts". Force closing this does make the sync icon go away. Unfortunately it still returns. But I'm going to continue to pursue the force close thing before I resort to a complete wipe.