i tried handcent and goSMS. On both apps i was getting that "force close" message and the incoming message wouldn't appear in my conversation. the pop up screen would show it it but the thread would only show my response. it sucks because i like the look but that force close message is annoying.
also, my friends and i send messages/pics to each other and it seems like they have a "reply to all" option but i have to do it indivdually if i want them all to see it. is there a way to reply to all? they have iphones and blackberrys so i don't know if that's a feature they automatically have.
*Update* after going back to stock messaging and still getting errors, i think the culprit was a Blackbook app that i installed to hide contact/calls/messages. i went back to GoSMS because handcent was a bit laggy before i even got the blackbook. We'll see how it works now.