if so he mentions nothing about doing it remotely. I would think password/thumbprint would be enough to keep it locked and find my phone can even reset it if it is still on. No one WANTs to turn their phone off when its "lost".
From what OP says, he doesn't have possession of the phone. His ex has it and it sounds like he's trying to lock her out of it but can't get find my mobile or android device manager to work. Maybe I'm reading it wrong. Could OP clarify?
Could you clarify your situation? Do you have the phone and just can't get it unlocked? Or does your ex have the phone and you're trying to lock it down remotely?