I've got a texting app from online, an APK. but my phone doesn't recognize it as a messaging app so I can't set it as default. any way to get around this?
The app developer needs to do that during coding of the app.
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Welcome to Android Central! It's always best to install apps from a known reliable source like the Play Store. Is there a reason why you downloaded it as an apk?