I am completely with you on that. I am running skyraider 2.5.2. I love the way the 3.2 RC runs however something about it just doesn't feel right, I can't put my finger on it but something that does bother me is the lock screen. I love the way I can put my handcent in the launcher but something with the straight line lock screen doesn't feel right. It might be different if the bottom part was shaded in but I really love the vanilla lock screen and would like that as an option as well. I have tried flashing the vanilla lock screen over 3.2 but it gives me a blank screen on the inital lock and brings back the sense one after pressing the power button.
I must say it can be quite frustrating at times to have such limited options on such a popular "open" platform...