If you can't figure out a toolkit, then you shouldn't be hacking a phone at all until you learn the real way to do it. And the thing is, the manual method is extremely easy! Just spend 15min reading a guide and anyone can figure it out. Admitting that you can't do a manual flash on a Nexus is admitting you can't read English.
OK, now that really does sound elitist. I read your replies on lots of threads, and while obviously you do know what you are talking about, it always sounds like you are reprimanding people, and it sucks. Toolkits to me seem far more complicated too, compared to opening a terminal window and using fastboot, but keep in mind there is a lot of prep involved before you can run the fastboot commands. You need the right drivers installed, which frankly isn't always that easy, and you need to download the SDK (which can also be complicated since there are a lot of options and boxes to check for ppl who don't know what they are doing), and then all that hot mess of fastboot, SDK, drivers, images have to be extracted/installed and all put in the same folder. There are lots of guides, but few of them are complete, and people don't want to make a mistake. It is no doubt better to understand how bootloaders work, what the images do, and what you are actually doing, and it is frustrating when people don't get it, but not everyone wants to do it your way, and we can still help them regardless.
Saying "If you can't figure out a toolkit then you shouldn't be hacking a phone at all until you learn the real way to do it" is really elitist sounding, and does in no way foster an environment of learning or encourage people to ask questions which they might worry are n00b or dumb questions.
The problem is this introduces more resistance later when their phone is soft-bricked on a table and they're posting "omg halpz!" threads because they have absolutely no idea what happened.
There is less resistance when you learn how to root and flash your phone on your own manually.
If everyone could or wanted to do it manually, then no one would write Toolkits in the first place. Hell, some people don't know how to get all those files in the same folder, or how to open a command window within a specific folder. That doesn't mean they shouldn't have the joy of flashing roms or rooting, thats why we are all here. Help people, don't make them feel stupid.